June 1, 2004

Dear Archbishop Sean P. O’Malley,

 

Dear Archbishop,

            I am aware that in this hard time, you must be receiving thousands of letters of appeal from every parish that met an unfortunate fate this week. While I will not pretend to know the details of Cannon Law nor those of every accomplished ministry in my parish, Sacred Heart in Lexington, I can attest to the success of our Youth Ministry. Furthermore, I think that the Youth Ministry is among the most important ministries our faith has to offer.

            The future of our church lies in the adults of tomorrow being brought into the faith today! Immersed in a world of secular distractions, I have found that for many, it is not easy to commit to God without help. This is the service that Youth Ministry provides.

            In only a year’s time, our parish has made extraordinary leaps and bounds to improve young members’ faith. Our program began when a small group of teens, myself included, decided that we wanted to deepen our own faith. A bible study group was formed, which set the ball rolling for the numerous programs to follow. Several of us attended Catholic Leadership Institute and the Moving Beyond supplement this past summer. We returned this fall ready to kick off a spiritual year.  We planned masses, created a church teen room, did community service projects, attended retreats such as Youth Outreach Weekend, actively participated in The Catholic Youth Rally, ran a road to resurrection Lenten prayer service, and were present at the Holy Week’s Tenebrae service in Boston. Every one of us has become a better Catholic and a better person because of our efforts. We have also created unbreakable friendships that provide support to help us cope with the challenges we face in our lives.

            Our group, the TLC as we like to call ourselves, extended our effort to deepen faith to our entire youth community. Our efforts introduced about a hundred middle and high school students to the enjoyment of worshipping God. We planned activities that were not only fun but gave the teens an opportunity to give back to the community. I know we have touched many live. A key factor to the success of our program rested in teen comfort.  As teens, many struggle with the need to fit in and be accepted. This feeling often serves as a barrier. However, by making Sacred Heart an inviting, exciting place free of judgment we cultivated their faith and helped it grow. Unfortunately, I fear that without the guidance of TLC or the comfort of our familiar community, many of these teens will fail to continue to build on their spirituality. Having finally overcome the fear of being different from their non-Catholic peers, they are being thrown back by the reality of a closing church.

            Both TLC members and those we inspired feel defeated. It seems as if our hard work and time have all been a waste. We have always stressed that no matter what hardships arise, we always have the church to fall back on. Our church has served as a place of security and serenity until now. The loss of Sacred Heart is much more than a loss of a structural building. The teens of Lexington are losing a sense of belonging and comfort. Catholics as a whole are losing future priests, nuns, deacons, and active lay people. I do realize that the Catholic Church has suffered in the past few years and that there are not enough priests. However, closing parishes like Sacred Heart in looking to solve our short term problems creates new problems for tomorrow by not securing faithful followers today. If the Catholic faith continues to frustrate and isolate young people, those young people will not turn to the faith when they grow up. Speaking for all the members of Sacred Heart Youth, I ask that you reconsider your decision about Sacred Heart and allow us to continue our journey to serve the Lord. Thank You,

 

age 17, Lexington, MA 02420